tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post7925919748470207457..comments2023-08-26T16:27:36.682+01:00Comments on ☆ the life of an ordinary girl...: Idealistic vs RealityRebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08391820714511196977noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post-13570237886973473482011-07-10T16:28:51.442+01:002011-07-10T16:28:51.442+01:00Thank you Natalie :) xThank you Natalie :) xRebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08391820714511196977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post-57789076499288025522011-07-09T14:50:30.818+01:002011-07-09T14:50:30.818+01:00I really liked this post. I love your honesty. I b...I really liked this post. I love your honesty. I believe we all have things that we would love to change about ourselves, myself included. You're wonderful the way you are!NKristehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10670370289027021831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post-11759677314399324642011-07-08T14:56:54.813+01:002011-07-08T14:56:54.813+01:00Thank you everyone! It means a lot :)Thank you everyone! It means a lot :)Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08391820714511196977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post-29773841810976773812011-07-05T21:17:06.268+01:002011-07-05T21:17:06.268+01:00This is such a lovely post.. I used to want to be ...This is such a lovely post.. I used to want to be taller but I'm not too bothered now. But my ideal self would definitely be good at interviews not panic and dither and say silly things! I love your honesty here and hope you can change some of things you want to! xxxRachel, Cold Kneeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17947310623671217765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post-79813237053126150182011-07-05T20:36:02.810+01:002011-07-05T20:36:02.810+01:00i love your honesty! ♥ and i think it's great ...i love your honesty! ♥ and i think it's great that you're going to be working towards being your ideal self. you're really a wonderful person :)Furree Katthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00115232440467001511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post-10775113098423702592011-07-05T17:41:58.993+01:002011-07-05T17:41:58.993+01:00Beautiful post. Yes, the person we wish to be rare...Beautiful post. Yes, the person we wish to be rarely coincides with who we actually are, but if we identify what we want with words, we are more likely to find a way to become who we want to be.<br /><br />Remember, though, who you are now isn't necessarily who you will be tomorrow. We have the ability to change who we are to fit how we live, and the world around us is constantly changing us without our even realizing it. Be proud of who you are today. But know that who you are tomorrow depends on how much you're willing to control who you become.<br /><br />My mom taught me that. She says that nobody can control anyone, but themselves. You can control who you are. Things like nut allergies, or height are determined by genetics. But your personality, the way you live your life, that is up to you.<br /><br />And now that my lecture is over, I bid you adieu! Thank you so much for sharing that beautiful, inspiring post! I think your real self is an incredible person, and that your ideal self is a beautiful goal.<br /><br />One slight suggestion, and then I swear I'll leave you alone: don't worry about the parts you can't change. But the parts that YOU are in control of, well, those are things to think about, aren't they?<br /><br />I'll have to try this exercise for myself. Don't think I'll be quite as brave and share it on the internet, but you never know. Thanks so much for having the guts to share both who you are and what you want with total strangers! Have a great day!<br /><br />P.S. Hope I didn't upset you with the lecture. You just inspired me to add my (unasked for) 2 cents worth. Happy writing!Kylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01793288607844743336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post-77017900480213368202011-07-05T17:27:53.270+01:002011-07-05T17:27:53.270+01:00hi sweety, love ur blog.. really intresting! hope ...hi sweety, love ur blog.. really intresting! hope to read a new post! :) kisses!<br /><br />stefaniaStefaniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03855342859358356864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306618775500397743.post-4190448083343293812011-07-05T17:09:43.568+01:002011-07-05T17:09:43.568+01:00I'm glad I inspired you to write this post, I ...I'm glad I inspired you to write this post, I know how difficult it can be to be so honest. Our ideal selves are quite similar in that we wish to look different, be smarter and have more confidence. Maybe it's a teenage girl thing?Miss Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08758016594265555571noreply@blogger.com